"what hurts the most is being so close" - love that song quote......it's stuck in my mind.
and it's so true.
I hate always being involved in other people's relationships coz in some way, I shouldn't...... yet...i care too much to let it all die away.
Both mean as much to me. I've watched this relationship blossom...... yet.... I know not how to help them solve this. In fact, I can't. For it's their road.....it's an obstacle they both have to clear on their own. Yet I can't help but wish I could lend a helping hand.
It's amazing how love makes us so blind. It's amazing how love can blur the line between being generous and selfish, until u know not what the definition is. What truly is loving? To hold back or to let go?
I truly think i am lucky to have met someone like my darling. to have someone with whom my ideals are linked so closely to....to whom our principles in life and love are so similar....to one who has the same commitments as I do...........yet, I know it was not all god-given....rather, we also played a part in making it work out...because we wanted it to, and we both wanted it to be the best it ever could be, one that would last us for our entire lifetime......because that's the only way love can last.......love's not given perfect.....instead, it comes with many imperfections that becomes more obvious only as time goes by, and you have to learn to perfect it, to smoothen it's ridges, to accept, and to love..........
Yet, not many are as lucky as we are. However, this is not to say that it is impossible to attain this level of love that is similar to ours. I guess it's just how ur attitude towards love is.
It's not about changing yourself or your better half. That can never happen. We are who we are, and changes happen involuntarily...it's not something that can be controlled by anyone, not even ourselves. It's about accepting, loving, and making an effort to improve yourself, so that you are making a conscious effort to strengthen the relationship.
Love cannot stagnate. Never. Once it stagnates, it is lost, and all that holds you together are just commitments.
Love is about finding more ways to love your better half, and to give them even more reason to love you. Love is about continuing to discover something new to learn about your other half every day. Love is finding new ways to remind your other half you love and appreciate them and their efforts to make you love them more.
Love is telling each other "I love you" every day.
Love is about making choices not only for yourself but for the both of you.
Love is not about giving yourself up....but to lead two lives that link as one. Love is about developing together. Love is spending every moment together as if it were the last, to treasure every single moment. Love is not about clinging to one another, preventing growth, but rather, to support each other as you grow individually.
Love is to never give up....not on your other half, and not on yourself.... for once you do that, all is lost. Yet, love is also about letting go so that you don't suffocate.....it's knowing when to make the right choice.
Love is confusing. It always will be........
I guess it sucks when it reaches the point where you have to make such a decision, especially when the both of you have grown so much together, shared so much, loved so much. But there are times when such decisions have to be made. It's how much you treasure this....and how much you want it to last. Sometimes making what you think is the best decision, can be the most wrong decision you ever can make.
I guess that in the end, what matters most, is not to regret any decision you make.........
9:35 PM
Life is Beautiful
I love you not only for what you are
but for what you make of me.
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