Thursday, August 23, 2007
Thursday August 23 2007
Happy 56th Monthsary!!!!Yay....56 months...it also means it's officially 4 more months to the BIG BIG DAY!!!!!Had a great Lindy Hop lesson today.....just loved it.....darling's getting the feel slowly....getting more confident each time...and i'm so proud of him....=)Had quite a lousy day at school coz my tutor couldn't be bothered to appear again...sighz....oh well.....Sighz....Darling and myself are currently so broke....feel like dying....we haven't exactly eaten out this entire month......only on thursdays when we have no choice...and even then, it's like below $12 for the both of us?? MAN.....I feel so so so deprived!!!! But, it's all for a good cause in the end...I have to keep remembering that!!! So random my post...maybe coz of the time, and for the fact that I just got home?? Hehe...i just love the song on my blog.....it's the exact way darling and me are...so annoyingly fun, the song... *laughs*Just took a communication personality test...think it's true..here's the result....Perpetua, when it comes to communicating in a relationship, you're a Diplomat
Diplomats like you have top-notch communication skills that allow you to collaborate when talking things through with your partner. Although you may sometimes retreat or become angry when you have a big disagreement, the way you process your feelings and are able to communicate them will probably help you hash problems out after a short while — before they start to fester.People tend to develop their communication styles based on the kind of communication that's been most successful for them in past close relationships.
Because one of your first close relationships was with your parents or a parental figure, their communication styles probably influenced your communication style more than other things. For example, as a Diplomat, you may have had parents who were also Diplomats. As such, you may have learned that the best way to get what you wanted was to negotiate by understanding their perspective while also asserting your own. This doesn't necessarily mean that your communication style shares the same patterns as the people who raised you. It's also possible that your communication style developed out of a desire to communicate in a different manner from that which you were exposed to as a child.
Sure, some aspects of the way you relate to others may be identical to one or both of your parents. Other aspects may result from the way you needed to relate to them during childhood to get your way.
I think it's quite true eh?? =pokay...gonna spend some quiet time with darling before the end of today!!!
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